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The Love of God   Leave a comment

And we have known and believed the love that God hath to us. God is love; and he that dwelleth in love dwelleth in God, and God in him. …

There is no fear in love; but perfect love casteth out fear:

(The Bible KJV – I John 4: 16, 18)

Brotherhood of Man   1 comment

“Love one another” (I John, iii. 23), is the most simple and profound counsel of the inspired writer.

(Science and Health with Key to the Scriptures by Mary Baker Eddy p5172:16)

The rich in spirit help the poor in one grand brotherhood, all having the same Principle, or Father; and blessed is that man who seeth his brother’s need and supplieth it, seeking his own in another’s good.

(Science and Health with Key to the Scriptures by Mary Baker Eddy p518:15)

Love One Another   2 comments

Put on therefore, as the elect of God, holy and beloved, bowels of mercies, kindness, humbleness of mind, meekness, longsuffering;

Forbearing one another, and forgiving one another, if any man have a quarrel against any: even as Christ forgave you, so also do ye.

And above all these things put on charity, which is the bond of perfectness.

(The Bible KJV – I Colossians 3: 12-14)

Forgiveness – A Quality of Love   1 comment

Then Peter came to Jesus and asked, “Lord, how many times shall I forgive my brother or sister who sins against me? Up to seven times?”

Jesus answered, “I tell you, not seven times, but seventy-seven times.”

(The Bible NIV – Matthew 18: 21, 22)

…. …. ….

And forgive us our debts, as we forgive our debtors.

And Love is reflected in love;

(Science and Health with Key to the Scriptures by Mary Baker Eddy p17)

Forgiving the Unforgivable   Leave a comment

True forgiveness – is it possible?  If someone has really hurt you in ways that seem impossible to ignore, is it necessary to forgive them?  Is it actually possible? 

Jesus is quoted as saying (Matt 5: 38,44) Ye have heard that it hat been said, An eye for an eye, and a tooth for a tooth: … But I say unto you, Love your enemies, bless them that curse you, do good to them that hate you, and pray for them which despitefully use you, and persecute you;   Why did he say this? Is it realistic?  Is it wisdom?

We don’t ever have to condone or excuse unacceptable behaviour.  It is only right that laws and courts deal with unlawful behaviour but world events tell us that ‘an eye for an eye’ thinking does not bring peace.

In this same passage, Jesus goes on to say that we are the children of God – God who is Love.  Our true nature then is loving.  This gives us the strength to move beyond hurts.  When you truly know who you are, it is possible to find your freedom from negative, limiting feelings.  Hurt and resentment fall away in the knowledge that you are the loved and loving child of God.

Mary Baker Eddy, the founder of Christian Science writes in an article, Taking Offense:

We should remember that the world is wide; that there are a thousand million different human wills, opinions, ambitions, tastes, and loves; that each person has a different history, constitution, culture, character, from all the rest; … we should go forth into life with the smallest expectations, but with the largest patience; with a keen relish for and appreciation of everything beautiful, great, and good, but with a temper so genial that the friction of the world shall not wear upon our sensibilities; … determined not to be offended when no wrong is meant, nor even when it is, unless the offense be against God. (Miscellaneous Writings p223)

This is how we find our peace.

Hate No One   2 comments

Hate no one; for hatred is a plague-spot that spreads its virus and kills at last. If indulged, it masters us; brings suffering upon suffering to its possessor, through‐out time and beyond the grave. If you have been badly wronged, forgive and forget: God will recompense this wrong, and punish, more severely than you could, him who has striven to injure you. Never return evil for evil; and, above all, do not fancy that you have been wronged when you have not been.

(Miscellaneous Writings – Love Your Enemies p12 by Mary Baker Eddy)

True Wisdom Brings Peace   1 comment

Who is a wise man and endued with knowledge among you? let him shew out of a good conversation his works with meekness of wisdom.

But if ye have bitter envying and strife in your hearts, glory not, and lie not against the truth.

This wisdom descendeth not from above, but is earthly, sensual, devilish.

For where envying and strife is, there is confusion and every evil work.

And the fruit of righteousness is sown in peace of them that make peace.

(The Bible KJV – James 3: 13-18)

Being a Cheerful Giver   2 comments

Every man according as he purposeth in his heart, so let him give; not grudgingly, or of necessity: for God loveth a cheerful giver. And God is able to make all grace abound toward you; that ye, always having all sufficiency in all things, may abound to every good work.

(The Bible – II Corintians 9: 7, 8)

Giving does not impoverish us in the service of our Maker, neither does withholding enrich us.

(Science and Health with Key to the Scriptures by Mary Baker Eddy p79: 31-32)

Happiness Found   Leave a comment

Happiness is spiritual, born of Truth and Love. It is unselfish; therefore it cannot exist alone, but requires all mankind to share it.

Love enriches the nature, enlarging, purifying, and elevating it.

(Science and Health with Key to the Scriptures by Mary Baker Eddy p57)

God is Comforting Her People   Leave a comment