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Forgiveness   1 comment

These readings are from a Wednesday Testimony meeting in Canberra. They are on the topic of forgiveness.

Then came Peter to him, and said, Lord, how oft shall my brother sin against me, and I forgive him? till seven times? Jesus saith unto him, I say not unto thee, Until seven times: but, Until seventy times seven.

(The Bible KJV – Matthew 18: 21, 22)

Embracing Diversity   Leave a comment

A Sentinel Watch interview with Joan Bernard Bradley. Click here to listen.

In this interview Joan talks about how she overcame resentment over incidents of racial abuse and discrimination. She goes on to tell how through prayer and effort she has been able build respectful relationships in racially diverse settings.

Speak Gently   2 comments

Speak gently to the erring ones,
They must have toiled in vain;
Perchance unkindness made them so;
O win them back again.

Speak gently, ’tis a little thing,
Dropped in the heart’s deep well;
The good, the joy that it may bring,
Eternity shall tell.

(Hymn 315 – verses 2 & 3 from the Christian Science Hymnal)

The Path Out of Hatred   Leave a comment

by Deborah Huebsch published in the September 16, 2024 issue of the Christian Science Sentinel.

Because everyone is God-created, it is possible to see that each individual is worthy of—and able to—love.

Burning, white-hot hatred. We know it when we see it—fueling wars, spawning deep political divisions. Most of us yearn to see hatred give way at least to tolerance—and certainly love would be the ideal. But how do we get there? 

You might be thinking, “I don’t hate.” Or, “I don’t personally deal with hatred.” But as we take a closer look, we may recognize ways we do feel dislike, animosity, or even hostility. For example, are we neutral when it comes to politics? We might even find ourselves rationalizing these feelings because, after all, there seem to be reasons for them. …

Click here to continue reading, or to listen to, Deborah’s article. In it she describes how she managed to overcome a long-term hatred and how she now uses this understanding to help her bring a sense of peace to other areas of her life.

Forgiveness – A Quality of Love   1 comment

Then Peter came to Jesus and asked, “Lord, how many times shall I forgive my brother or sister who sins against me? Up to seven times?”

Jesus answered, “I tell you, not seven times, but seventy-seven times.”

(The Bible NIV – Matthew 18: 21, 22)

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And forgive us our debts, as we forgive our debtors.

And Love is reflected in love;

(Science and Health with Key to the Scriptures by Mary Baker Eddy p17)

Forgiving the Unforgivable   Leave a comment

True forgiveness – is it possible?  If someone has really hurt you in ways that seem impossible to ignore, is it necessary to forgive them?  Is it actually possible? 

Jesus is quoted as saying (Matt 5: 38,44) Ye have heard that it hat been said, An eye for an eye, and a tooth for a tooth: … But I say unto you, Love your enemies, bless them that curse you, do good to them that hate you, and pray for them which despitefully use you, and persecute you;   Why did he say this? Is it realistic?  Is it wisdom?

We don’t ever have to condone or excuse unacceptable behaviour.  It is only right that laws and courts deal with unlawful behaviour but world events tell us that ‘an eye for an eye’ thinking does not bring peace.

In this same passage, Jesus goes on to say that we are the children of God – God who is Love.  Our true nature then is loving.  This gives us the strength to move beyond hurts.  When you truly know who you are, it is possible to find your freedom from negative, limiting feelings.  Hurt and resentment fall away in the knowledge that you are the loved and loving child of God.

Mary Baker Eddy, the founder of Christian Science writes in an article, Taking Offense:

We should remember that the world is wide; that there are a thousand million different human wills, opinions, ambitions, tastes, and loves; that each person has a different history, constitution, culture, character, from all the rest; … we should go forth into life with the smallest expectations, but with the largest patience; with a keen relish for and appreciation of everything beautiful, great, and good, but with a temper so genial that the friction of the world shall not wear upon our sensibilities; … determined not to be offended when no wrong is meant, nor even when it is, unless the offense be against God. (Miscellaneous Writings p223)

This is how we find our peace.

Hate No One   2 comments

Hate no one; for hatred is a plague-spot that spreads its virus and kills at last. If indulged, it masters us; brings suffering upon suffering to its possessor, through‐out time and beyond the grave. If you have been badly wronged, forgive and forget: God will recompense this wrong, and punish, more severely than you could, him who has striven to injure you. Never return evil for evil; and, above all, do not fancy that you have been wronged when you have not been.

(Miscellaneous Writings – Love Your Enemies p12 by Mary Baker Eddy)

Healing Trauma – Is It Possible?   Leave a comment

An interview with Kate Robertson

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When trauma seems to have so many lives in its grip, how can we respond in a way that heals, both individually and collectively? Kate walks us through her own healings of trauma to show what Christian Science makes possible.

A Life of Peace   Leave a comment

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Follow peace with all men, and holiness, without which no man shall see the Lord:

(The Bible – Hebrews 12: 14)

A Recipe for Peace   Leave a comment

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Love your enemies, do good to them which hate you, Bless them that curse you, and pray for them which despitefully use you.

(The Bible – Luke 6: 27, 28)